What to Do After Your Elderly Parent Falls

A step-by-step guide for the critical moments after a fall

One in four adults over 65 falls each year, and falls are the leading cause of injury-related death in seniors. Whether you're present when your parent falls or get a call after the fact, knowing what to do can prevent further injury and save lives.

⚠️ Call 911 Immediately If:

Immediate Steps After a Fall

1

Stay calm and assess

Don't rush to move them. Take a breath and assess the situation. Ask them what happened and where they hurt. A calm response helps them stay calm too.

2

Check for obvious injuries

Look for bleeding, swelling, or limbs at odd angles. Ask if they have pain anywhere, especially head, neck, back, or hips. Don't move them if you suspect spinal injury.

3

Determine if they can get up safely

If there's no obvious injury and they feel able, you can help them up using the proper technique. If in doubt, call for medical help first.

4

Keep them comfortable if waiting for help

Cover them with a blanket if cold. Don't give food or water in case surgery is needed. Stay with them and keep them calm.

5

Document what happened

Once the crisis is managed, note what caused the fall, the time, symptoms, and any injuries. This information helps doctors and prevents future falls.

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How to Safely Help Them Up

Only attempt this if they have no signs of serious injury and feel able to try getting up:

Safe Getting-Up Technique

  1. Roll to side: Help them roll onto their side, then onto their hands and knees (crawling position)
  2. Crawl to furniture: Have them crawl to a sturdy chair or piece of furniture
  3. Put hands on furniture: They place their hands on the seat of the chair
  4. Bring one leg up: They bring their stronger leg forward, placing that foot flat on the floor (in a kneeling lunge position)
  5. Push up: Using their arms and front leg, they push up and turn to sit on the chair
  6. Rest: Have them sit for several minutes before standing. Check for dizziness.
Protect Your Back: Never try to lift your parent by yourself. If they can't participate in getting up, call for help. Injuring yourself makes you unable to care for them.

If They Hit Their Head

Head injuries in seniors are especially serious, particularly if they take blood thinners. Even if they seem fine initially, symptoms can develop hours later.

Blood Thinners Increase Risk: If your parent takes warfarin (Coumadin), Eliquis, Xarelto, Plavix, or daily aspirin, any head bump—even minor—needs medical evaluation. Internal bleeding can be slow and deadly.

Watch for These Signs in the Next 24-48 Hours

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Worsening headache
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Vomiting
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Increasing confusion
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Unusual drowsiness
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Unequal pupils
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Weakness on one side

If any of these appear, seek emergency care immediately. Brain bleeds can be fatal if not treated promptly.

Questions to Ask and Document

About the Fall

  • What were they doing?
  • Did they trip, slip, or feel weak?
  • Did they black out or feel dizzy first?
  • Did anything else happen (chest pain, palpitations)?
  • What time did it happen?

After the Fall

  • Where exactly do they hurt?
  • Can they move all limbs?
  • Any numbness or tingling?
  • Did they hit their head?
  • Any visible injuries?
Falls Without Obvious Cause Need Investigation: If your parent "just fell" without tripping on something, this may indicate a medical issue—blood pressure drop, medication side effect, heart rhythm problem, infection, or neurological issue. Report "unexplained falls" to their doctor.

After the Immediate Crisis

In the First 24-48 Hours

Report the Fall to Their Doctor

Even if there's no obvious injury, their doctor should know about falls. Share:

When Falls Keep Happening

Recurrent falls are a red flag that something needs to change. Consider:

Medical Evaluation

Home Safety Assessment

Mobility Support

Fear of Falling Creates More Falls: After a fall, many seniors become so fearful of falling again that they limit their activity. This leads to muscle weakness, which ironically increases fall risk. Physical therapy and gradual confidence-building are essential.

Medical Alert Systems

If your parent lives alone or falls frequently, a medical alert system provides crucial protection. Options include:

Traditional Alert Buttons

  • Worn as pendant or wristband
  • Press button to call for help
  • Connected to monitoring center
  • Works if conscious and able to press
  • $20-50/month typical cost

Fall Detection Systems

  • Automatically detect falls
  • No button press required
  • GPS tracking options
  • Higher cost ($30-60/month)
  • Can have false alarms

Track Falls and Symptoms

Our daily care log helps you document falls, track patterns, and share information with doctors.

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When Falls Indicate Bigger Changes Needed

Sometimes falls signal that your parent's current living situation is no longer safe:

Consider Additional Care If:

This might mean hiring in-home help, moving to assisted living, or having them move in with family. A geriatric care manager can help assess the situation and recommend appropriate next steps.