Stroke in Elderly Parents: Know the Signs, Act FAST

Every minute counts—learn to recognize stroke symptoms and take immediate action

⚠️ Stroke Is a Medical Emergency

If you suspect a stroke, call immediately:

911

Don't wait to see if symptoms improve. Don't drive to the hospital yourself.

Stroke is the fifth leading cause of death in the United States and a leading cause of serious long-term disability. For adults over 65, the risk doubles every decade. Knowing the warning signs—and acting on them immediately—can mean the difference between full recovery and permanent disability or death.

The FAST Test: Spot a Stroke

FAST is the easiest way to remember and identify stroke symptoms. Teach this to everyone in your family:

F
Face Drooping

Ask them to smile. Does one side of the face droop or feel numb?

A
Arm Weakness

Ask them to raise both arms. Does one arm drift downward?

S
Speech Difficulty

Ask them to repeat a simple phrase. Is speech slurred or strange?

T
Time to Call 911

If any of these signs appear, call 911 immediately. Note the time symptoms started.

Additional Warning Signs

While FAST covers the most common symptoms, strokes can also cause:

Sudden Onset Of:

  • Confusion or trouble understanding
  • Severe headache with no known cause
  • Trouble seeing in one or both eyes
  • Trouble walking, dizziness, loss of balance
  • Numbness in face, arm, or leg (especially one side)

In Women, Also Watch For:

  • Sudden hiccups
  • Sudden nausea
  • General weakness
  • Chest pain
  • Shortness of breath
  • Sudden behavioral changes
"Mini-Strokes" (TIAs) Are Warnings: Transient ischemic attacks (TIAs) cause the same symptoms as strokes but resolve within minutes to hours. They're not "mini"—they're emergency warnings. Up to 1 in 3 people who have a TIA will eventually have a stroke, often within 48 hours. Treat TIAs as emergencies.

Types of Stroke

Ischemic Stroke

87%

of all strokes

  • Caused by blocked blood vessel
  • Blood clot blocks artery to brain
  • Treatment: clot-busting drugs (tPA), clot removal
  • Best outcomes if treated within 3-4.5 hours

Hemorrhagic Stroke

13%

of all strokes

  • Caused by bleeding in brain
  • Blood vessel ruptures
  • Treatment: surgery, pressure management
  • Often more severe, higher mortality

What to Do During a Stroke

1

Call 911 immediately

Don't call the doctor's office. Don't drive to the ER yourself. Call 911 so treatment can begin in the ambulance.

2

Note the time symptoms started

This is critical. Treatment options depend on how long ago symptoms began. If you don't know, note when you last saw them normal.

3

Stay calm and keep them comfortable

Have them lie down with head slightly elevated. Loosen tight clothing. Stay with them and reassure them.

4

Gather critical information

While waiting for EMS: list of medications, medical history, allergies, and any blood thinners they take.

5

Be ready for CPR

If they become unresponsive and stop breathing, be prepared to start CPR until help arrives.

What NOT to Do

The Golden Hour: For ischemic strokes, the clot-busting drug tPA must be given within 3-4.5 hours of symptom onset. Mechanical clot removal can extend the window to 24 hours in some cases. Every minute of delay kills approximately 1.9 million brain cells. Time is brain.

Stroke Recovery

Recovery depends on stroke severity, location in the brain, how quickly treatment was received, and overall health. Here's what to generally expect:

Acute Phase: Hospital

Days 1-7

Stabilization, preventing additional strokes, early rehabilitation assessment. Your parent may be in ICU initially. Brain swelling is a major concern in the first few days.

Early Recovery: Inpatient Rehab

Weeks 1-4

Intensive physical, occupational, and speech therapy if needed. Most rapid recovery occurs in the first weeks. Insurance typically covers inpatient rehab if patient can tolerate 3 hours of therapy daily.

Subacute Recovery: Home or Outpatient

Months 1-3

Continued therapy, adapting to limitations, learning compensatory strategies. May transition to skilled nursing facility if unable to go home. Home modifications may be needed.

Long-Term Recovery

Months 3+

Recovery can continue for months or years, though at a slower rate. Focus on preventing another stroke, managing new limitations, addressing depression (common post-stroke).

Recovery Is Possible: About 10% of stroke survivors recover almost completely. 25% recover with minor impairments. 40% experience moderate to severe impairments. While not everyone returns to their pre-stroke baseline, meaningful recovery is possible with good rehabilitation.

Stroke Risk Factors

Controllable Risk Factors

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High Blood Pressure

#1 risk factor

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Atrial Fibrillation

Irregular heartbeat

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Diabetes

Damages blood vessels

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Smoking

Doubles stroke risk

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Obesity

Linked to other risks

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Heavy Drinking

Raises blood pressure

Uncontrollable Risk Factors

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Age

Risk doubles each decade after 55

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Family History

Genetic factors

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Race

Higher in Black Americans

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Sex

More women die from stroke

Preventing Stroke

Up to 80% of strokes are preventable. Work with your parent's healthcare team on these strategies:

Blood Pressure Control

The single most important thing. Target is usually below 130/80.

Manage Atrial Fibrillation

AFib increases stroke risk 5x. Many people have it without knowing.

Medication Adherence

Stroke prevention medications only work if taken consistently.

Lifestyle Modifications

Track Medications & Symptoms

Consistent medication tracking and symptom logging can help prevent strokes and catch warning signs early.

Get the Care Coordination Binder

After a Parent's Stroke

If your parent has had a stroke, your role as caregiver becomes critical:

Immediate Priorities

  • Understand the type and location of stroke
  • Learn about expected deficits
  • Participate in care conferences
  • Plan for discharge early
  • Research rehab options

Ongoing Support

  • Ensure medication compliance
  • Transport to therapy appointments
  • Home safety modifications
  • Watch for signs of depression
  • Prevent another stroke
Post-Stroke Depression: Up to 1 in 3 stroke survivors experience depression. It's not just sadness about their situation—stroke can physically change brain chemistry. Watch for withdrawal, hopelessness, changes in sleep/appetite, and talk to their doctor if you're concerned.